Please wait until the actual bidder completes the transaction, then correct the remaining two items.

Try not to cancel an auction with an actual bid, if there is no reason to do so. The bidder didn't do anything wrong.

When you set up your auctions, you can check the International boxes. I think Ebay will honor a bid from an international whether you said yes, or not. I think your Spanish bidder can bid, there is obvious visibility. It's whether or not they bid.

On this occasion, I would just wait it out.